Tongue weight rating can be limited by either the chassis structure, the hitch itself, or by the rear suspension/axles load rating.
Generally speaking on the sprinter the limiting factor is the chassis structure. To go beyond this rating you would need to identify the weak point(s) in the chassis and compensate for them. If that is even feasible.
A weight distributing hitch may reduce the apparent tongue load. However you may in fact be putting more load on other parts of the chassis due to the torque/moment that is transferring load to the front axle.
I would much prefer to have a slightly high tongue weight, than put a WD hitch on a chassis that doesn't appear designed for that load/application.
Aside from trailer stability, as long as the towing vehicle has enough weight on its rear axle, tongue weight isn't critical. For example a 5,000lb trailer being towed by a motorhome with 7,000lb on the rear axle. It doesn't matter from a towing vehicles perspective if there is 400 or 700lb on the tongue. At least from a stability perspective. Now the trailer may not track straight with low tongue weight.